Navigating Change

Debi Levine, MS, LMFT

What a Woman Needs

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This is for all those guys who can’t quite figure out what it is their lady wants from them! What does it take to connect with her and make her happy? Read on…

A woman needs…

…the attention of someone who cares about her

…the help of someone who wants to take care of her needs

…time when she is not considering what everyone else wants but when someone is considering her wishes

…someone who understands what she like and makes a plan so that she doesn’t even have to think

…someone to anticipate her needs, wants, and wishes and to offer to help without her having to ask

…someone to notice her, love her, and adore her

…someone to miss her and desire her

…to love freely and trust that she will be loved in return

…someone who cares about her well-being, to understand what she is going through, and recognize the validity of her feelings

…someone she can confide in who is trustworthy and will not turn on her or break her confidence by revealing secrets

…someone who regards her as special

…someone to help her in life so she doesn’t feel she is doing it all by herself

…someone to feel passionate intimacy with

A woman needs not only these things but needs to have them fulfilled by someone with who she feels a natural chemistry with on all levels: physical, emotional , mental, and spiritual. Are you up for the challenge? Maybe learn to dance with her?

What women need

Reference:

Gray, John. (1997). Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship. Harper-Collins Publishers.

 

What a Man Needs

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Ladies, this is important information for you to know if you are searching for your ideal life partner! It is never too late to strengthen a relationship and make it better.

A man needs someone…

…who notices his efforts and appreciates what he provides

…to share what he has accomplished

…to give him the opportunity to fulfill her needs

…to accept him just the way he is

…to bring him out of himself

…to trust him and depend on him for what he can provide

…to inspire him to be the best he can be

…who likes him very much

…who is pleased with him and responsive to him

…who is receptive to his plans and suggestions

…who admires him for what he has done or tried to do

…who will forgive his mistakes

…who appreciates and acknowledges his best qualities, like patience, strength, generosity, kindness, dedication, loyalty, assertiveness, compassion, courage, wisdom, humor, and playfulness

What a man needs

Reference:

Gray, John. (1997). Mars and Venus on a Date: A Guide for Navigating the 5 Stages of Dating to Create a Loving and Lasting Relationship. Harper-Collins Publishers.